💨 Abstract

The author discusses the frustrating experience of straight men using gay dating apps for ego boosts and validation, only to ghost or block queer individuals after getting their 'fix.' This manipulative behavior leaves queer people feeling invisible and disposable, compounding the challenges they already face. The author suggests that straight men seeking such validation should be honest and upfront with their intentions, noting that this manipulation feels like the worst betrayal from a community that often faces discrimination.

Courtesy: Erique Estrela