💨 Abstract

A "shut up ring" is a term used to describe a proposal made not out of genuine desire, but to avoid conflict or pressure. Relationship psychotherapist Debbie Keenan warns that such engagements are often signs of underlying issues. She advises trusting your instincts and considering whether the proposal feels authentic. If doubts arise, it could indicate resentment or a lack of true commitment. Keenan views a shut up ring as a major red flag, suggesting the relationship may be on fragile ground.

Courtesy: Courtney Pochin