💨 Abstract

Being ghosted after an initial great date is common. Relationship psychologist Dr. Lalitaa Suglani explains this phenomenon as "identity wobbles," where a person feels destabilized by a potentially good connection. This often happens with those who have anxious or avoidant attachment styles. Key signs of likely ghosters include self-deprecating jokes about relationships, vagueness about dating history, or avoidant behavior when discussing personal or future-oriented topics.

Courtesy: Alice Giddings