💨 Abstract

An anonymous person writes to Deidre about their experience with a dominatrix who they've developed feelings for and has scammed them, asking for thousands of pounds and expensive gifts, none of which was ever repaid. Deidre responds that they've been likely taken advantage of and need to address their relationship choices, emphasizing help with the fetish but acknowledging that they should work on their relationship. The writer also mentions worry about what their partner might find out.

Courtesy: Sally Land