💨 Abstract

The author recounts her lifelong experiences with public attention due to her beauty, starting from childhood compliments to a successful modeling and pageant career. She faced sexual harassment and assault, feeling dehumanized and unsafe. Transitioning into her 60s, she now values self-acceptance and mental well-being over external validation. Recent social media bullying emphasized her resolve to live authentically, focusing on personal health and happiness rather than societal expectations of beauty.

Courtesy: Margaret Gardiner