💨 Abstract

The author, Margaret Gardiner, recounts her experiences with societal expectations and harassment due to her appearance. From childhood compliments to a successful modeling and pageant career, she always felt uncomfortable with the attention. She faced sexual assaults and dehumanizing stares, leading her to develop coping mechanisms. Now, at 65, she faces online bullying but stands firm in her self-acceptance, focusing on health and personal fulfillment rather than external validation.

Courtesy: Margaret Gardiner